What does the research say about resolutions?
- Just pick one resolution. More than that is too hard.
- Break the goal into steps. Have a plan.
- Reward yourself for progress.
- Realize you may screw up. Keep at it.
How do you easily start good habits?
It’s called “Minimum Viable Effort”:
The first step is crucial — keep it tiny. Do not be ambitious yet. That leads to failure. Consistency is what you’re shooting for here so make the hurdle as low as possible.
What’s the easiest way to make good habits stick? Surround yourself with supportive friends:
Via Charles Duhigg’s excellent book The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business:
In a 1994 Harvard study that examined people who had radically changed their lives, for instance, researchers found that some people had remade their habits after a personal tragedy, such as a divorce or a life-threatening illness… Just as frequently, however, there was no tragedy that preceded people’s transformations. Rather, they changed because they were embedded in social groups that made change easier… When people join groups where change seems possible, the potential for that change to occur becomes more real.
Keep in mind it takes an average of 66 days to establish a new good habit.
From Oliver Burkeman’s Help! How to be slightly happier and get a bit more done:
…a new study by the University of College London Psychologist Phillipa Lally and her colleagues helps confirm. On average, her subjects, who were trying to learn new habits such as eating fruit daily or going jogging, took a depressing 66 days before reporting that the behavior had become unchangingly automatic.
How do you break bad habits?
- The secret to breaking bad habits is to not try to eliminate them but to replace them.
- Here’s a quick explanation of how triggers and replacing habits works, by Charles Duhigg, author of The Power of Habit.
Any other tips?
Write your resolution down:
Do NOT fantasize about achieving your resolution: