“Hey, should you be bothering the help?”
The minute I overheard this phrase slip out of one our sales manager’s mouth, I knew that it was going to be a long day. He was speaking to a salesman, who happened to be in the middle of a conversation with one of our female assistants. I looked up quick enough to see this woman’s eyebrow arch and lips purse in a a dangerous expression of controlled fury. The manager had absolutely no idea that he’d said something remotely offensive and chuckled at his funny little joke as he walked on. After a few minutes, once the office had returned to it’s normal pace, I walked into the man’s office, shut the door and said, “Are you freaking kidding me? The help?” “Oh, she knows it was just a joke,” he assured me. I tried not to sound exasperated as I reminded him, “Just because you think it’s a joke doesn’t mean that anyone else finds it amusing.”
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