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“If you are in a competitive field, everyone hates you because you’re just more and better than they think you should be: more attractive, more talented, smarter, whatever. They have to act like they like you, but they really hate you. Knowing this makes you successful because you won’t forget that no one at work is your friend. Then you are not surprised when they try to play you.”
This is an excerpt from the book The Go-Getter Girl’s Guide: Get What You Want In Work And Life by Debra Shigley. The woman who says this is a hot shot advertising executive who is explaining her strategy to her friend who had been talking about a co-worker stealing credit for her work. Shigley wrote that though Melanie’s approach is a little radical, it is accurate. But is it healthy to approach your career like this and does it work? We talked to some women who have used this strategy or at least aspects of it. More










